GERALD GARTH

In this week’s article, we look into the third installment of The Four Agreements—don’t make assumptions. Most times when it comes to assumptions, they are things accepted to be true, but not necessarily so. When it comes to assumptions, find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, grief, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. When we

Hipsters We are in a time where self-expression is at its highest. People of all ages are trying new things with fashion, hair, makeup, body art, blurring gender lines and bucking societal norms. Yet, in this time where self-expression in many form is celebrated and even encouraged, we should remember that, on the converse, some people will not agree with some of our expression choices. While some of us may be experimenting with green hair and cut-off shorts, some may not

Speaking in terms that make you feel better and express who you are and what you feel is so important. Sometimes we mince words and bite back on the strength of “being the bigger person” or “taking the high road,” but sometimes you have to say what you feel. Of course, tact, grace, and decorum are always necessary, when it’s to the point of becoming vexed, angry, or out of sorts, we need to address it. I can’t tell you me how many movies I’ve suffered through, dinners I’ve fo